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Find Your Tribe and Never Feel Lonely!

"A friend is someone who helps you up when you’re down, and if they can’t, they sit beside you and listen." — Winnie The Pooh.

Just imagine!! having a community of such friends and family members, who accept you for who you are! And they like you on your good days and also on cranky days!.๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ’• They value your views no matter how different they are from their views!๐Ÿ’›. Sounds awesome, isn't it? 

Well, it's possible to have a tribe like this.๐Ÿ™ If you haven't found your tribe yet, find it. And if you can't find it even better, create it. ๐Ÿ˜Ž 

It's important to remember the words of Rim John, who said that "You are an average of five people you spend the most time with"! Our environment plays a huge role in defining our personality. Both as children and adults.๐Ÿ˜ฎ

As a child, I was very different than most people I knew. And I was often ridiculed for these differences. Only when I grew up did I realize that some qualities people made fun of me for, were my unique abilities and strengths!  So one of my goals as a mentor is to empower my students to create and nurture their tribe. So that they never feel bad for who they are!  ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜‡


My awesome students, Shreyan, and the team created the above logo for their tribe "Free to Bee". 

Make it a "Love your Tribe" Day

Shubhadina ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

 #EmotionalIntelligence

#GowthamiSaraf 


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